5 Ways To Spot A Liar

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Lying is a deception that most people indulge in at different times in their life. If you know how it is not hard to find out if someone is lying to you. All you need to do is look out for these 5 certain behaviors and body language:

Tone variation: If a person is lying to you, they are usually worried that they might get caught. They feel guilty and are more prone to making speech errors. They will also hesitate before saying anything because they are usually tense. A liar will often speak in an agitated manner and use a high pitched voice due to the increased tension in their vocal chords.

Inconsistency: One way to catch a liar is to look for inconsistencies in their story. Such people will talk about an event that they attended, but forget to include relevant information, such as the venue, the time or the date. Consequently, if you ask such an individual to repeat the story after a short period of time, they will forget some of the details, a clear indication that they are lying.

Poor eye contact: There is an old adage that liars never look you in the eye, which is quite true. A person will avoid looking directly at you when lying, or glance away and blink their eyes consistently. They fear that if you look closely, you might actually discover their deception.

Facial expressions: A liar will try to use a smile to disguise their true feelings. However, if you look closely, you will notice the smile is not genuine and merely lasts for a few seconds. Consequently, they will keep on nibbling their lips or break into a sweat due to the anxiety resulting from lying.

Barriers: Liars will try to create distance or barriers between you and the truth. This could include small steps that turn the body away, hands covering the mouth or even slightly touching the mouth. They could also move objects that are on a table or counter between the two of you such as a pen, plate, or stepping behind larger objects.

Is Your Significant Other Cheating On You?

You have a sneaking suspicion something is up.They’re acting different and things don’t seem the same between you. If you are wondering if your boyfriend or girlfriend is cheating on you look no further. Here are 4 key tips to help you figure ot if your boyfriend or girlfriend is dancing dirty with another partner.

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The Fountain Of Sex Has Run Dry

If you and your significant other haven’t had sex in months or its been so long that you can’t remember, then this is a major warning sign. When people are sexually satisfied with another they often lose the desire to initiate sexual contact with their partner.

Test This Theory: Try and initiate sexual contact and if they make excuses or completely blow you off, then you know something is up. If you try again numerous times and they just aren’t “feelin’ it”, then most likely they’re getting their fix somewhere else.

 

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They Always Have Their Phone On Them

All of the sudden your partner won’t go anywhere without their phone- and never says who they are constantly texting. They start keeping their cell on them or turned over screen down when its laying out. If you do suspect something ask who it is . If that fails check their phone and read their text messages. A person’s cell phone is like their secret diary. If your significant other has their phone attached to them, even in the bathroom, then they are hiding something or have a serious cellular addiction.

Test This Theory : Ask to look at their phone and see what they say. If they truly have nothing to hide, they’ll give it to you, or leave it out, unattached to them.

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They Are Always Working Late

The oldest one in the book. Its tried and true. If your significant other keeps canceling dates on you or continuously comes home late then this is a red flag. Make sure they are really at work or where they tell you they are. You do not want to be the last to know that John or Jane left work 6 hours ago.

Test This Theory : Call to say hello or stop by with a surprise. If they aren’t cheating they will be happy to hear from /see you. If they are cheating … they won’t be there.

 

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Listen To Your Gut

Its a horrible feeling but in all honesty, your gut will tell you the truth. If all of the above things are happening, then most likely, you’re being cheated. The truth will always come out so trust your gut and decide whether you want to be there when it does.

Test This Theory : If you find yourself making excuses and rationalizing then your gut is telling you its wrong.

 

Even If they aren’t cheating who wants to be in a loveless, non-communicative, neglectful relationship that makes you feel uneasy anyways?